About me

I am Beck Thom. I am a queer intimacy facilitator. I love helping people work and play towards greater intimacy, pleasure, joy and connection through my one to one, relationship and community practice.

What kind of person am I?

What did I do? (Training)

  • Youth Work diploma
  • Social Work BA Hons
  • Certification in Sexological Bodywork
  • Trauma training for Bodyworkers
  • Sharon Wheeler’s ScarWork®
  • Holistic Body Massage Diploma
  • Anatomy and Physiology Diploma
  • Betty Martin Wheel of Consent practitioners training
  • Counselling Skills certificate, plus many therapeutic trainings

I have experience in:

  • Parenting
  • Specialist youth work (LGBT and mental health/self-harm)
  • Therapeutic Social Work (5 years), including issues with early childhood sexuality and inappropriate sexual behaviour
  • 4 years working independently as a Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator and Sex Coach
  • Being coached and attending therapy
  • Being a work in progress myself!
  • Being neurodiverse (ADHD)
  • Working with disabled clients around rights to sex and pleasure

What am I passionate about and what are my values?

  • Sexology through a queer lens
  • Queer, sex positive community
  • Healing and holistic wellbeing
  • Justice and equality
  • Holding space for people who struggle to find space in this world
  • Critical thinking
  • Development of self and community
  • Embodiment for health and pleasure
  • Pleasure activism
  • Holding many complexities, realities, and meanings at one time
  • Compassion and kindness
  • Concern for the planet and ecology
  • Sex Worker friendly
So, if you come and work with me, I bring to our connection and time together all of what I have learnt in my 40 odd years of life and work experience, and my collaborative spirit to explore the realms of your body, relationships, sexuality and pleasure.